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M. Mikle

Building Mental Toughness - because physical preparation is only a piece of the puzzle

Updated: Nov 29, 2023

Building mental toughness in sports is crucial for success, and it can be particularly beneficial for young women. Mental exercises can help improve focus, resilience, confidence, and overall mental well-being. For many sports, failure is inevitable. Mishits, strike outs, slips and mental mistakes will undoubtedly happen. How do you handle them and stay focused? How do you prevent poor play from consuming you? You need to train your brain to prepare for adversity just as much as you train your body. Here are some mental exercises tailored for young women in sports:


1. Visualization:

  • Vividly imagine yourself succeeding on a very specific aspect of your sport. Visualize every detail – the sights, sounds, and feelings associated with success.

  • Practice visualizing overcoming challenges, such as a difficult opponent or a tough game situation.

  • Visualize what your body language looks like after you fail. Do you drop your head or slouch? Do you stomp your foot or throw your hands up in frustration? Think about what you want to do differently to maintain your confidence and carry on. It often requires acknowledgement of the mistake and ownership of it and then see yourself get back into "ready stance" and leave the mistake behind you.


2. Positive Self-Talk:

  • Replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations. For example, instead of thinking, "I can't do this," commit to the idea of saying, "I am capable, and I can handle this." Even better is "I am going to dominate." or "I am so ready for this".

  • Create a list of positive affirmations specific to your sport and have them on repeat before and during competitions.


3. Goal Setting:

  • Set realistic and achievable short-term and long-term goals. Break down larger goals into smaller, manageable steps. Don't be delusional, make the goals reasonable and build on them as you progress.

  • Emphasize the importance of process goals (e.g., improving technique) alongside outcome goals (e.g., winning a match).


4. Mindfulness and Breathing Exercises:

  • Use mindfulness techniques to help you stay present and focused. Mindful breathing exercises can be particularly effective in managing stress and anxiety.

  • Practice deep breathing exercises before competitions to stay calm and centered.


5. Resilience Training:

  • Openly discuss the inevitability of setbacks and failures in sports. It helps you to understand that failure is a part of the learning process and an opportunity for growth.

  • Practice a positive response to setbacks by asking yourself questions like, "What did I just learn?" or "Was that a good approach?" Being honest with yourself will go a long way.


6. Pre-Competition Routine:

  • Develop a consistent pre-game routine that includes mental preparation. This could involve visualization, positive self-talk, and calming activities.

  • Establish a routine that helps you transition from the chaos of daily life to the focused mindset needed for competition. Some athletes use music to make that transition in mindset.


7. Focus on Process, Not Outcome:

  • Remember the importance of staying in the present moment during competitions. If you are reminding yourself to focus on the task at hand, it becomes harder to worry about the past. Don't think too far ahead, the next step or task should be the focus, not the outcome.

  • Develop a mindset of continuous improvement, where the focus is on getting better each day rather than solely on winning.


8. Journaling:

  • Keep a sports journal to track your progress, record thoughts and emotions, and reflect on your performances. Keep the positivity when writing down your thoughts.

  • Use journaling as a tool for self-reflection and goal assessment.


9. Role Models and Mentors:

  • Identify successful women athletes who can serve as positive role models. Learning about their journeys and challenges can inspire and motivate you.

  • Encourage mentorship relationships with older athletes who can provide guidance and support.

  • Be a mentor to someone else. When you are giving advice on mental toughness, ask yourself "Am I practicing what I preach?"


10. Team Building Activities:

  • Foster a positive team culture where players support and uplift each other. This sense of camaraderie can contribute to mental resilience.

  • Team-building exercises and activities can strengthen the bonds among teammates.


Remember, consistency is key when incorporating mental exercises into a training routine. It's also essential to tailor these exercises to individual preferences and needs. Additionally, working with a sports psychologist or mental performance coach can provide personalized guidance for developing mental toughness in sports. It is also important to mention that if you find yourself depressed or anxious, talk to someone you trust about it and seek out professional help. If sports were easy, everyone would do it. You are an athlete but your worth isn't defined by how you play. Your training includes mental toughness and wellness!



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